This topic was inspired by the latest episode of "Single Ladies" . This show comes on Monday nights @ 10 p.m. EST on Vh-1! If you havent checked it out.....then do so. They showcase a lot of "single" topics that make for a good debate :*)
Anyway.....On to the question....Is marriage the ultimate goal in every girls relationship??? My girlfriends and I had a debate about this and it seems marriage wins. The majority ruled that what is the purpose of dating if you not going to get married. Well, one of the charaters on the show stated that "all men are not marraige material" (which is true and that goes for women as well).
So whats wrong with dating and enjoying someone without having to try to reach the "ultimate goal" with everyone you date. Mostly its based on how you feel and what you ultimately want in life. And if you want the happily ever after~ then you should never settle. But if you are ok with being in a great relationship with someone who treats you like a queen and is faithful and everything you want in a man.....would you demand he put a ring on it before you bail.......
I guess it just boils down to what it is YOU want out of the relationship. Never settle and always go after what you want! But dont look sideyed at the other chick who is confident and happy in her relationship (married or not) because maybe thats just Her prerogative.......
So what are YOUR thoughts??? Is Marriage your Dream or would you be happy with a beautiful relationship minus the ring????
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